Most of us, even those of us who are supposed to know better, spend a lot of time and energy thinking that things will be better as soon as we achieve it. It might mean getting promoted, moving into a nicer place, making more money, getting married, having children, getting out of debt, finding more … Read more
Accepting what is…is one of the many important aspects of life that is much easier said than done. For much of my life, I’ve struggled to accept certain things about myself, others, and the world around me. As someone who’s committed to change and transformation, the idea of “acceptance” has often seemed weak or passive … Read more
My friend and colleague, Dr. Robert Holden, poignantly says, “There’s no amount of self-improvement that can make up for a lack of self-acceptance.” Self-acceptance is defined as “an individual’s acceptance of all of their attributes, positive or negative.” So much of our life and our work is focused on self-improvement. And while there’s nothing wrong … Read more
As much as we don’t like to think about it or talk about it, the fact is, we’re all going to die one day. The reality of death is, of course, both obvious and daunting for most of us. I used to wonder what it’s like to know you’re going to die – but then … Read more
In today’s busy world with a never-ending “to-do” list of obligations, responsibilities, and commitments, it can be hard for us to take a real break. But taking breaks in the midst of the daily grind is vital for our mental, physical, and emotional health. Why Taking Breaks is So Important Wherever you are in your … Read more
Embracing our emotions can be challenging. When it comes to finding healthy ways to feel and even express our anger, specifically, the stakes can feel even higher. We often think of anger as something to be ashamed of, avoided, or hidden. However, learning how to feel and express our anger in healthy ways is an … Read more
This, too, shall pass. It is a saying we hear often. People will say it to us when we are going through something difficult, and while there is profound truth and wisdom in this mantra, it can also be tricky. We must be careful about when and how we say this phrase to others and … Read more
In the wake of some of the recent events in the world and in light of so much of what we’ve all been through the past few years, I’ve been finding it challenging to focus on the good stuff, even though this is at the core of my approach to life and what I teach. … Read more
Patience is powerful. It can help us persevere, reduce stress, and overcome challenges. Patience may be a virtue, but it’s something I often find challenging. How about you? Given the pace, uncertainty, and intensity of life and work these days, I don’t think I’m alone in the struggle to be patient. But why can it … Read more
How do you forgive yourself, especially when you feel shame and regret about things you have done in the past? Dealing with shame and regret isn’t easy. And forgiving yourself can be extremely difficult when you live in constant guilt and regret. Many of us carry hard, hurtful emotions that build with us as time … Read more
