The Trap of Comparison with Others

The Trap of Comparison With Others

How often do you compare yourself to others? If you’re anything like me and most of the people I know and work with, you probably compare yourself to others more than you’d like to admit.  And, as you may have noticed (like I have), this comparison process never seems to feel good or work well. … Read more

Are You Jealous of Other People’s Success?

Are You Jealous of Other People's Success?

How do you feel when you see or hear about the success of others? If you’re anything like me, you probably have some mixed emotions, especially if you’re going through struggles and challenges in your life. I often find myself excited and inspired by the success of others, especially the people closest to me. However, … Read more

Let Go of Negative Comparison

I’m heading to my 15-year class reunion at Stanford this weekend.  I’m excited to see some old friends, spend time on campus, and attend the various parties, sporting events, and fun stuff planned for the weekend.  At the same time, I’m feeling quite anxious about the whole experience – knowing how easy it can be … Read more